Love & Learn
Positive Guidance for Young Children
Children imitate our behavior. When we shout in anger, tenderly comfort a child, cringe at the sight of a spider, or put our dirty clothes in the hamper,
our children are likely to follow our example. Children also live up to our
expectations. If we expect 2-year-olds to be terrible, they will be. If we expect
6-year-olds to make good choices, they will.
Adults make a big difference in how children approach life. How do we help them learn self-control? Do they trust us? Do they feel competent? Or are they angry . . . jealous . . . fearful . . . restless . . . frustrated . . . lacking in self-
esteem? These and other emotions and behaviors take a long time for children
to develop-starting at birth. What discipline techniques encourage children to become responsible, self-controlled adults?
Excerpt from Alice S. Honig, Love and Learn: Positive Guidance for Young Children (Washington, DC: NAEYC, 2000), brochure.
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